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Spiritual Abuse : Spiritual abuse victims are emotionally imbalanced

Spiritual abuse is mistreatment to someone who is in the dire need of spiritual help out of his (or her) unbearable and bitter life experiences. Normally we tend to seek help from God when we are in difficulty. In a search of God, we reach to religious places like temples, churches or mutts where -few times- we come across real unscrupulous (dubious) elements, those disguised themselves as the representative of God. They emotionally blackmail the needy by misusing of a position of power (like pontiff), leadership, or influence to foster the selfish interests of someone else other than the individual who needs help. Such mischievous elements prey upon needy person's genuine intension of seeking help from God or the almighty power. They purport their advice to be the 'most appropriate' advice in that critical life situation. Abuse occurs because of legitimate personal needs that are being met by illegitimate means. Spiritually abusive religious systems are sometimes pretended as legalistic, mind controlling, spiritual healing systems and religiously helpful to work out solution in your life problem.

Over the period of time, the victim gradually gets entrapped in the trap of abusers. The group tends to mold the psyche of victim in a manner that he (or she) start inclining towards usefulness of beliefs and rituals (-prescribed by abusers) in resolving their life problem. The most distinctive characteristic of a spiritually abusive religious system, or leader, is the over-emphasis on authority. Because a group claims to have been established by God OR supposed to be directly linked to God for their decisions and (-it is further believed that) God Himself directs the leader in this system is having the right to command the followers. This authority supposedly comes from the position they occupy. The abusive religious system is scrupulous to maintain an image of righteousness. The organization's history is often misrepresented in the effort to demonstrate the organization's special relationship to God and normally full with imaginary stories, experiences and testimonials. They were never wrong so the mistaken judgments and character flaws of its leaders are denied or covered up in order to validate their authority. Impossibly high legalistic standards of thought and behavior may be imposed upon the members. Their failure to live up to these standards is a constant reminder of the follower's disloyalty and inferiority to his leaders, and lack of honesty up to the mark and the necessity of submission to them. The attitude of groups by way of some rituals and customs leads to members being secretive about some doctrines and the inner policies and procedures of the group. Leaders, especially, will keep secrets from their members. This secrecy is rooted in a basic distrust of others because the belief system itself is false and cannot stand before scrutiny. Because the religious system is not based on the truth it cannot allow questions, dissent, or open discussions about issues. The person who disagrees becomes the problem to system rather than the issue he has raised. Questioning anything is considered a challenge to authority and rebel against God. Thinking for personal opinion is suppressed by pointing out that it leads to doubts. This is portrayed as unbelief in God and His anointed leaders. Thus the follower controls his own thoughts by fear of doubting God. 

A most obvious assumption of such group is that a person does not get something for nothing. If you want something from God, then there must be a sacrifice in lieu! Apart from the express declarations of salvation by grace through faith God has given in the scriptures, it would be natural to think that one must earn salvation, or at least work to keep it. Thus, in abusive religions all blessings come through performance of spiritual requirements. Failure is strongly condemned so there is only one alternative, repetition and perfection. So long as he thinks he is succeeding in his observation of the rules, the follower typically exhibits pride, elitism, and arrogance. However, when reality and failure eventually set in, the result is the person experiences spiritual burnout, or even shipwreck of his faith. Those who fail in their efforts are labeled as apostates, weak, or some other such term so that they can be discarded by the system. Spiritual abuse has a devastating effect on people. A very high level of trust is often placed in spiritual leaders. It is, and ought to be, expected that the trust will be honored and guarded. When such trust is violated the wound is very deep. Sometimes the wound is so deep that the wounded person cannot trust even a legitimate spiritual authority again. The main symptom is the inability to relate normally to people who represent the source of their emotional injury or hurt. Besides an unhealthy fear of, and disillusionment with, spiritual authorities, the spiritually abused person may find it difficult to trust even God. "How could (or why did) God let this happen to me?" Anger and bitterness towards life is also deeply felt. Such legitimate anger or bitterness if not properly channeled and dealt with, can degenerate into bitterness and cynicism toward everything that is supposed to be spiritual. Healthy recovery from spiritual abuse must begin with understanding what has happened and how it was happened? As the leader deals with each individual differently, victim usually thinks he is the only one experiencing these problems and other group member are getting desired results. Many time the abuse tends to self-condemnation tendencies and prey to frustration. While recovering gradually the abused person learns the true nature of God's grace, love and forgiveness. This is the foundation for being able to eventually forgive the abuser. Finally, a lot of time must be allowed for full recovery. Victims of spiritual abuse must implement to regain their psychological equilibrium and be restored to spiritual wellness.

In Spiritual Abuse, people have been hurt by legalism, authoritarian leadership, manipulation, excessive discipline, spiritual intimidation and much more. Why do some people stay in abusive relationships? Or, why do they get into them in the first place? Spiritual abuse means the mistreatment or exploitation of a person who is in the dire need of help, support or greater spiritual empowerment, with the result of weakening, undermining or decreasing power of that person's spiritual empowerment. The abuse and exploitation occurring in groups where these hyper-authoritarian systems of governance are instituted come in various shapes and shades, ranging from members having to receive the approval (usually referred to as "witness") of their spiritual leaders to date and/or marry, to virtual sole dependence upon the supposed superior spirituality of group-gurus regarding every detail of their personal, financial matters and requiring their leaders' approval for virtually every significant expenditure. In these groups, the Guru is absolute, sacrosanct, and inviolable, that is, without reprisal. Any semblance of anything other than total and unquestioning obeisance to the desires and counsel of the chain of leaders is considered rebellion and insubordination, and simply is not tolerated. Members live under the constant threat of being openly denounced and shamed from the authority, and consequently turn away from the Grace of God. 

After disillusionment phase the victim gets overwhelmed under mixed feelings-the shock, the anger, the confusion, and the sadness. Grieving over losses is vital in recovery. Grieving may continues for longer period, it may take more time. If the victims still agree abusers as agents of God, they might have begun to view God himself as deceptive, self-serving, dictatorial, capricious, power-hungry, punitive, shaming, uncaring, and unloving. Victim often asks God, "Why do you put up with pastors like that? Why you let people suffer any kind of abuse?" Spiritual abuse means trifling with the emotions of needy. Proper 'behavior management by controlling emotions' may boost our inner confidence in a manner to face difficult life situations and you may realize that God is with us always, comforting us, helping us, sort out our feelings, healing our wounds, and setting us on the path to recovery. 

Spiritual Abuse; mentality of Spiritual abuse victims and Negative emotions co-relation.

Often the victims of "Spiritual Abuse" appear as weak at emotional level. A bad relationship, poor self image, a history of abuse, stress, frustration and many other factors can change your overall attitude towards life which may directly impede your overall performance. Such tendencies are deep-rooted in mind and nurtured by excessive Negative Emotions.

It is needless to mention that these negative emotions are tremendously powerful. They can debilitate lives extremely quick by causing disparity in energy system, which triggers a sequence of emotional imbalance (i.e. frustration, melancholia, persistent agony, mental instability, uncontrolled anger, inferiority complex etc.), which ultimately culminates in ill health.

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Reigning behavioral negativities --like frustration, guilty feeling or jealousy-- which accumulate at the core of our psyche over a duration of time --as in the form of "negative emotions"-- and incessantly make us "emotionally imbalanced", are considered to be the root cause of all our sufferings.

According to Bach Flower Therapy, often any ailment or ill-health condition --at most of the time and in majority of the cases-- is the result or expression of persistent "emotional imbalance" that takes place at the core of your psyche and persists over a period of time due to gradual accumulation of numerous
Negative Emotions, those originates either from your mind itself or from your surrounding circumstances. As soon as your mental state improves the physical trouble disappears. Therefore a person --which implies his overall nature, his general attitude towards life and his inimitable surrounding circumstances-- is more important than his disease or ill-health condition. -learn more about Bach Flower Therapy

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Within four weeks you can see improvements. Personalized formulations of natural Bach remedies can significantly improve your will-power, power or resistance, endurance limits, courage, faith and hope. They act gently on your mind tapping your natural ability to release negative emotions and restore well being that was previously within you! Over the time, you will find that all areas of your life have been radically improved.

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This simple, effective and reliable system of eliminating common behavioral negativities -like fear, shame, guilt, arrogance, envy, jealousy, greed, phobia and many others like that- is considered to be one of the easiest and most powerful tools of self-improvement, which also nurtures innate nature of a person by eliminating 'negative attitude and pessimistic thinking' from the core of psyche.

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