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Some people develop an attitude in their behavior of detaching themselves from social relationships
--social detachment attitude-- and prefer a restricted range of expression of emotions in interpersonal settings and spend most of their time alone. In modern psychotherapy this behavioral pattern is identified as
'Schizoid Personality Disorder'. People of this disorder neither desire nor enjoy close relationships and including being part of a family, almost always chooses solitary activities and prefer mechanical or abstract tasks like developing a software program or doing research. They found to be apathetic and remain little interested even in having sexual experiences and also take little pleasure in few activities. They do not have any close friends or confidants other than first-degree relatives and appear apathetic to either praise or criticism of others.
People with social detachment attitude show emotional coldness, detachment. In their close proximity they are identified as Odd/Eccentric/Suspicious Personality. They want to avoid interpersonal relationships because they find out others interaction as invasion on their privacy and it is intrusive and unrewarding for them. They find awkward while expressing emotions and difficulty responding appropriately to important life events. During important life event they lack direction and goals, reacting passively to adverse circumstances, apart they lack of social skills; obviously their occupational functioning found often impaired.
Low nurturance childhood may be one of the reasons responsible for their behavior. Their grossly inadequate, cold, or neglectful early parenting, which often began since early childhood like intrusive mothering, detached fathering may leave traumatic experiences on their mind and create an image that relationships will never be gratifying, which subsequently develop defensive withdrawal from others. Many people of such behavior may be very creative, especially with artistic vision in painting, sculpting, drawing, etc. Art may take the place of relationships. They typically remain in low-level jobs that require little interpersonal contact. Men are more likely to remain single than women probably because they lack the social skills to initiate courtships. Women may passively date and marry, but will remain emotionally aloof.
Negative Emotions
which are often found associated with the persons having Social detachment attitude
are:
General
characteristics:
Chronic negative affects, including anxiety, fearfulness, tension, irritability, anger, dejection, hopelessness, guilt, shame; difficulty in inhibiting impulses: for example, to eat, drink, or spend money; irrational beliefs: for example, unrealistic expectations, perfectionistic demands on self, unwarranted pessimism; unfounded somatic concerns; helplessness and dependence on others for emotional support and decision making.
Low Extraversion:
Social isolation, interpersonal detachment, and lack of support networks; flattened affect; lack of joy and zest for life; reluctance to assert self or assume leadership roles, even when qualified; social inhibition and shyness.
High Openness:
Preoccupation with fantasy and daydreaming; lack of practicality; eccentric thinking; diffuse identity and changing goals: for example, joining religious cult; susceptibility to nightmares and states of altered consciousness; social rebelliousness and nonconformity that can interfere with social or vocational advancement.
Low Agreeableness:
Cynicism and paranoid thinking; inability to trust even friends or family; quarrelsomeness; too ready to pick fights; exploitive and manipulative; lying; rude and inconsiderate manner alienates friends, limits social support; lack of respect for social conventions can lead to troubles with the law; inflated and grandiose sense of self; arrogance.
Low Conscientiousness:
Underachievement: not fulfilling intellectual or artistic potential; poor academic performance relative to ability; disregard of rules and responsibilities can lead to trouble with the law; unable to discipline self (e.g., stick to diet, exercise plan) even when required for medical reasons; personal and occupational aimlessness.
Specific Affects:
Emotional coolness or aloofness (absence of warm, tender feelings for others), constricted affect, indifference to praise or criticism or to the feelings of others, anhedonia, shyness, distrust, introversion, discomfort with intimacy, loneliness, anxieties concerning the mother-child symbiosis and other close relationships, feelings of utter unworthiness--but also of superiority, self-consciousness and feeling ill at ease with people, oversensitivity, destructive feelings, painful feelings, overwhelming anxiety (or even psychosis), emotional distance, intense loneliness, inordinate guilt over masturbation, fear of going crazy, sensitivity to slights. Aversiveness, or introversion; social anxiety; depression.
Persistent Social Detachment Attitude and Negative emotions co-relation.
Often
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