Shame is one of the basic human emotions that originates from mind itself and promotes self-reproaching, uncomfortable or painful feeling, "I am a useless, unlovable, disgusting, incompetent, stupid, defective, bad, incomplete, ugly and/or impotent
/ powerless person that is responsible for failure or misfortune." Usually this crippling belief starts in early childhood. Contemptuous or disdainful behavior and disrespect for others promote local or enduring shame. Public
shame causes embarrassment hits us deep inside where our primary identity lies.
Moderate ("normal") shame promotes healthy
Shame is a part and parcel of normal human nature. Our flaws
--at times embarrass us-- is one of basic causes of shame. Moderate shame can be a healthy feeling to
have, obviously moderate shame promotes healthy
inter-personal relations. It points to what we potentially can be and can inspire us towards achieving that goal. In this sense, shame is a very human feeling. It can point to what is good in us. Only a
'cultured creature' can feel shame, for it is only then that one differentiates right from wrong. Shame is a sign of communal instinct and societal structure in humans. We are beings meant to live in a community, for without a community shame is not possible.
Both the excessive shame and shamelessness are unhealthy as
they prevents us from relating in healthy relationships, it can lead to
either self-rejection (excessive shame) OR rejected by
Both the excessively shameful behavior as well as
shameless behavior can be reduced to moderate and tolerable one, if a person finds mentor with whom he can share his true-self can relate to him in a way that nurtures and sustains his behavior. Such mentor would be helpful so as to mold the psyche in a manner to deal with shame so that the excessive shame can be canalized in a manner to promote healthy personal decisions.
Our shame seems to come from what we do with the negative messages, beliefs and rules that we hear and internalize as we grow up. These messages basically tell us that we are somehow wrong. We hear them so often that we tend believe them. And so we incorporate or embedded them into our very being.
While dealing with the shame, it is also essential that we accept ourselves. If we can accept ourselves, we can begin to discard our many masks to reveal our true personalities. We can be real. We must come to accept our true humanness, with all our weaknesses, ignorance, and limitations. The more real we become, the less we have to hide and the less we will be threatened by shame.
If we do not feel shameful it may be that we are not consciously aware of our shame.
Shame is a part of being human. It is a natural response to criticism and conflict. Conflict is inherent in life. We live in conflict from birth to death. It is conflict that makes us aware of ourselves. Conflict causes us to look at
ourselves and notice that we are not perfect. The essence of one's soul - one's deepest self - is perfect. We instinctively feel shame because we are not the living expression of our true-self. True-self is perfection. It is because of this that sometimes people are embarrassed at being human.
Human life is the pathway to realizing perfection. Our experience as a human being is our opportunity to grow toward becoming what we truly are. As we grow and mature on this pathway, we may more deeply realize this and become more willing to admit our imperfections to ourselves. Seeing our imperfections frees us to change ourselves. By admitting to feeling shame we transcend the shame. By admitting our faults, we transcend our faults. We see our shame as natural and no longer avoid its feeling.
We are not ashamed of our shame. The shame is vanquished by our realization that our flaws are natural. We see our faults and weaknesses as a natural and necessary part of our lives. Do not be ashamed of faults and weaknesses. Realize that this human condition can be a glorious adventure. Welcome the experiences that allow us to observe and admit to our shortcomings.
As we come to truly understand this, we become more willing to know the cause of
our shame. The more we admit to and feel our shame, the less we feel shameful and become able to see ourselves in a non-judgmental way. Our willingness to observe and admit to what we really feel, think, and do is so powerful, that automatically we will begin to find ways to change things for the better. We will begin to tell ourselves the truth. There is no shame in the truth. Begin to tell others what you are learning. Find kind and loving ways to change yourself and help others to see and appreciate you.
Shame; both Shamelessness OR triggering excessive shame and Negative emotions co-relation.
the causes of "triggering excessive Shame or
even the shameless
are more mental than physical. A bad relationship, poor
self image, a history of abuse, stress, frustration and many
can change your overall attitude towards life which may
directly impede your overall performance. Such
tendencies are deep-rooted in mind and nurtured by
those originates either from your mind itself or from your surrounding circumstances. As soon as
your mental state improves the physical trouble disappears. Therefore a person --which implies his overall nature, his general attitude towards life and his inimitable surrounding circumstances-- is more important than his disease or ill-health condition.
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