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Envy or malicious nature demonstrates a 'negative emotion' as a result of discontent and ill-will over another's advantages. It is a feeling of grudging admiration and desire to have something possessed by another. Envy is when you do not measure up to someone else or you very much want something someone else has (e.g. an attractive lover, a sports car, success, a sexy build, etc.).
Envy demonstrates spite and resentment at seeing the success of another
(--personified as one of the deadly sins). Envy focuses on what others have which we do not have. Jealousy, on the other hand, focuses on what we have which we want to keep for ourselves. While envy is a desire to possess what another has, jealousy is a refusal to share what one possesses.
Envy or malicious nature
can make one feel the pain of deprivation even when one is not actually
deprived of. This results in a vicious circle of envy and unhappiness, since your unhappiness causes you to further envy those who are happy. Envy focuses on what we not have and how we may have failed. Our energy gets wasted in making comparisons between oneself and others, comparisons that result in feelings of inferiority. This leads to us to envy others and their achievements, and builds barriers between you and them. Envy can distort our perspectives in life and distract us from our routines and responsibilities. Envy immobilizes us from doing things that are necessary and important. Our energy is instead channeled towards undermining those we envy.
Causes
Of Envy : Reasons behind Envious, spiteful, malicious nature
We often feel envious or malicious because of our own conflicts with self-esteem or with self-limitations. There is a lack of self-worth and often a feeling of inferiority. Envy falsely assumes that self-worth can be attained through possessions or achievements. When these belong to someone else, the envious person feels a loss of self-worth and wishes that the other person would lose these things so that his own self-worth can be restored. Below are some situations,
which may trigger our envy.
Love Relationships:
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One may envy the magnitude of concern shown by other couples towards each other.
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If one has not been involved in any relationships, he or she may be
envious of the enjoyment others are receiving from their relationships.
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Friends:
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The envy may be material-based, when friends have all the latest gadgets.
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It could also be based on qualities like looks, success in school, and popularity.
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Family:
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A 'favored' sibling might be the cause of envy.
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One from a broken family may envy others who have complete families.
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The people we envy and the possessions or advantages for which they are envied tells us something about ourselves -our values, our aspirations, our negative self-concept. Use our envy as a mirror in which to see ourselves more clearly.
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Taking the following actions may help:
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Halt as soon as we become aware of our envy. Do not, on impulse, make actions or adopt attitudes that work against ourselves.
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Get to know the person we envy. We might find there is less to envy than what we perceived. |
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Try to appreciate and admire the person rather than envy him or her.`
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Find out what qualities or skills enabled the person to attain what we envy.
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Figure out how we can emulate those qualities and skills and take constructive action toward that.
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Dreaming is an act of pure imagination, attesting in all men a creative power, which, if available, would make every man happy and successful. Therefore it is good to daydream about having what we
envy, and enjoy it. In effect, we are making a passive, futile appeal towards getting our fair share of the goodies. Yet we do not stop there - figure out what we need to do to achieve what we envy and put them into practice, put our energy into action. When we are absorbed in doing something as best you can, we would not have time to feel
envious. Furthermore, if we keep doing things we care about as best as we can, we will get results and thus feel proud of ourselves.
Envy, envious, spiteful and malicious Nature and Negative Emotions co-relation.
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