As a part and parcel of society, we are part of rich and poor, diverse and complex community. Our relationships with each other are likely to be a large and important part of our life experience while we are surviving in this unique world. While nurturing relations, stress is an innate and unavoidable part of it. There are times when stresses and conflicts arise, even with the best of intentions. When we are out of control, we tend to vent our uncontrolled feelings in form of harsh reaction like rage, resentment, abuse or swearing or firing our colleague without thinking that it would hurt their inner feelings. Possibly they would keep mum, but the emotional distance would grow greater. Each confrontation would continue to widen that distance. The relationship would deteriorate finally. Haven't all of us seen or even been a part of such situation? While reacting such situation we forget a principle that is found in the Bible. "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." or "Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing.."
If such incident happens we must proceed to restore the relationship, so as to undo the consequences of a 'wrong act' that was done previously, out of control. Our few good words can restore relationship that was broken by our few bad words. In most of the cases our
wrongdoings, out of our impulsive mood, puts our relationship with our colleague at risk. So we must take the first step toward reconciling that broken relationship because creating relationships is not so easy, it require energy for them to be nurtured and sustained. Now it's up to your colleague to respond. The colleague would either ignore us or scream, "I hate you!" and go on doing 'appropriate';
leaving the relationship broken.
Normally "end of relationship" situations arises because of the following
Lack of proper Communication:
Communication barriers frequently contribute to built a stress in
relationship. Sometimes, consciously or unconsciously, we say one thing and communicate another. Sometimes people communicate that they are listening when they are not. And styles of communication vary: the message intended may not be the message received.
Frequent lack of proper communication
--misunderstandings-- is one of the
prominent reasons of "end of relationship".
Tensions can develop when people have different ideas about who is responsible for what. Different ideas about who is responsible for what can cause stress in a relationship.
Stress can arise when one person is more dependent on the other. The dependent person feels disappointed or angry when the other doesn't come through with what is expected. The depended-upon person feels resentful of the expectation, and of the pressure that it
exerts may lead him gradually towards the end of
Previously Unresolved Conflicts:
The more unresolved conflicts there are in a relationship, the greater the current ones become. A whole history of unresolved conflicts can be played out on something trivial issue.
External pressures often put serious strains on relationships. They can be anything from a weak economy to lazy wife. These kinds of strains are twice difficult: they make it harder to manage stresses already in the life, and they add new ones. Often people do not realize the toll external pressures take, and they may begin to doubt the relationship itself. They sometimes realize that the focus of anger is placed on the other person rather than on the external cause. External pressures like personal problems, tight schedules, financial worries, competitive situations, housing shortages, and the demands of daily living take their toll on relationships.
In most of the cases "end of relationship"
happens in such circumstances. If you want to restore the relationship at any cost then your rejoinder shall be a cry from the heart so that it will mend your broken relationship with colleague. If you could not survive relationship and the relationship ends by choice or circumstance, or is planned or unexpected, there are likely to be painful feelings, a sense of desolation, and self-questioning. These feelings are largely due to the attachment with colleague. The loss of a relationship exposes us to a new sense of vulnerability. Self-confidence often becomes shaky. We may become irritable, lose our appetite, and are susceptible to sudden anger or tears. We may be unable to think about anything other than the lost relationship, or to concentrate on anything else. And sometimes the end of a relationship becomes an acutely painful reminder of other losses in our lives.
The availability of new relationships can reduce the stress of loss, and significantly diminish the feelings of loneliness. The support of caring people or a new relationship can't deflect all the pain of a lost relationship, but it can provide some protection against the emotional assault of separation. Having someone to be with and who wants to be with you helps.
End of a relationship and Negative Emotions co-relation.
the causes of "End of Relationship" are mental than
for physical attachments. A bad relationship, poor
self image, a history of abuse, stress, frustration and many
can change your overall attitude towards life which may
directly impede your overall performance. Such
tendencies are deep-rooted in mind and nurtured by
those originates either from your mind itself or from your surrounding circumstances. As soon as
your mental state improves the physical trouble disappears. Therefore a person --which implies his overall nature, his general attitude towards life and his inimitable surrounding circumstances-- is more important than his disease or ill-health condition.
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