Dejection is the negative emotion that brings grief or misfortune as a result of failure even after
performing at our level best in achieving the task by
applying honest and persistent efforts. Dejection may
be a form of frozen frustration or depression and it often leads to forsaking our goal halfway whilst achieving it or in the midst of planning to achieve it.
Because leaving the task midway is the common outcome of dejection, we
tend to use abandonment as our basis for illustrating dejection.
Deserting the task in the midst affects our credibility badly in the others' eyes and we
may lose our respect in the society. We also never learn the value of perseverance needed to work through obstacles and over-frustration.
Normally giving-up the task in the midst is an outcome of
dejection this is because:
While planning, although we take all necessary precautions at our level best, something that
was unforeseen --turns out to be more difficult than
what we thought while making the planning. If
that prevailing situation persists than our endurance capacity, some of us decide it is not worth
continuing the efforts. This is especially when the obstructions that we come across focus on our weaknesses. The fear of humiliation wrecks our willingness to carry on the efforts. We could not digest this to ourselves. We just find reasons why it's best to reduce and limit losses rather than trying further. Excessive fear that causes self-defeating behavior, impel us to leave the task in the midst. However, giving up also bring about emotional elevation especially when one has been preoccupied with unpleasant experiences or memories out of that unsuccessful attempts. Quitting the task can sometimes relieve our frustration and nervousness when we are trapped
badly in that situation. It keeps us from confronting a fear that we do not have what it takes to succeed.
Sometimes dejection may be an outcome of impatient or hasty planning, so spend some more time thinking about ways of resolving it. Think of all possible options. When we have found a way out, evaluate it. Then consider other alternatives. There may be several workable solutions. Examine the problem-solving process and evaluate it with the solutions. Of course, there are times when all the effort and intentions in the world would not salvage the situation. However, stopping and giving-up are two different aspects. Stopping implies re-evaluating and adjusting our course of action and not leaving the project. We cannot direct the wind but we can adjust the sails. A person cannot directly choose to change the situation, but they can choose the change in strategy, and so indirectly, yet surely, can shape their circumstances. Giving-up implies abandonship, freeing oneself from the burden of responsibility. We may then question how we can ever tell the difference between giving up and cutting losses. One way is to look past and get a sense of what our pattern is -have you been too ready to quit too soon, or to hold on?
We can change directions at any time in our lives; the only thing that prevents us is our own belief and doubting tendencies in our limitations. We may have to go without for a while, live on a reduced income or, handle the disapproval of our families, but we can still continue what we are doing and follow our desires. Therefore, we may just want to stop temporarily just for reviewing our strategy, before we decide whether to give-up.
No one can prevent us from creating our own way in life and our own decisions. Most of the time, it is the fear, which we create in our minds that stops us. If we think calmly and peacefully for a while, we may see a whole new world of awareness. We will realize that there is no need for us to feel bad about our actions or ourselves. Obstacles can be transformed into challenges and failures can become lessons and experiences. We do not need to be fearful of others. After all, what they may perceive or say is their mere individual opinions.
Always hope for the best:
We cannot move into the future if we tend to linger in the past. Every successful person, at some time
was in their struggling stages toward their goals had experienced disappointment and temporary setbacks. The important word in this statement is
'temporary'. For some, a setback means failure and giving up. However a disappointment or setback means a person has failed this time or in a certain way. Accept the fact that achievement requires time and effort. At the same time, learn to pace ourselves, to take on challenges we can handle, and to rest and recover after each one. Remember the fact that, honest effort cannot be lost, and some day the benefits will show.
So review your strategy with new courage. Use the information gathered to determine whether you have explored all available options, gathered all the necessary information, and solicited all the possible help. Be practical and work on all possible options. Always examine the goals we set for ourselves are within our reach, based on our limitations.
Underachievers generally set either inappropriately high or extremely low goals; irrespective of their limitations.
When we set improper task we are merely setting ourselves up for a poor result. This leads to frustration. Concentrate on how you will do your task rather than who is watching, criticizing or thinking of you. Take responsibility.
Things do not happen to us. We do things.
Barring few exceptions, dejection is an outcome of improper management due to misinterpretation about our limitations, strong as well as weak points, surrounding
circumstances and to some extent your luck too!
Dejection and Negative emotions co-relation.
Often the grief and disappointments linked with "Dejection"
mental than physical. A bad relationship, poor self
image, a history of abuse, stress, frustration and many
can change your overall attitude towards life which may
directly impede your overall performance. Such
tendencies are deep-rooted in mind and nurtured by
those originates either from your mind itself or from your surrounding circumstances. As soon as
your mental state improves the physical trouble disappears. Therefore a person --which implies his overall nature, his general attitude towards life and his inimitable surrounding circumstances-- is more important than his disease or ill-health condition.
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It is needless to mention that these negative emotions
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frustration, melancholia, persistent agony, mental
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etc.), which ultimately culminates in ill health.
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