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Decisions are an essential part of life whether at work or in our personal lives. Making decision means making a judgment between two or more alternatives. Since many people often have difficulty
in making decisions --or showing indecisiveness
tendency-- because every decision has an outcome. This is directly related to the decision that was made. Many times good outcomes can come from a wrong decision and a bad outcome can come from a good decision. We couldn't decide on which sounded better while making decision.
We must examine every alternative closely before making a decision because changing decisions frequently is no longer appropriate. Consider the implications of each decision. Make sure you do not make decisions while under too much pressure. If and when decisions backfire, take action and try to avoid losses. Before making any decision gather as much information as possible on the subject. Consider all the criteria involved in making a decision before making a commitment. Never make any decision hurriedly, normally such decisions backfires and could affect your
entire career.
Decision making is a part and parcel of
routine life, so accept that every decision in life has a chance of error and that no individual can make progress by being negative. Your fear of making a mistake will be eliminated gradually only if you try to make decisions. Remember, making 'NO' decision in a sense 'IS' making a decision! Remind yourself of what the worst-case scenario would be; assess what the chances are of the worst happening and what the impact of this outcome would be. If you decide you can tolerate with even the worst outcome, what is there to fear?
--Except of course, divorce, alimony, lawyer's fee, court costs, possible child support and the personal embarrassment and family ridicule that come with any bad decision.
Before making any major decision, write down on paper all your options you gathered in steps and evaluate the pros and cons of each. Now weigh your alternatives in order to make a tentative career decision. Then develop short and long-term goals for your future.
Remember to keep in mind that each and every decision that you have made is not necessarily final. Even after making a decision, if you get into a field that you are not satisfied with, you are not stuck in that field forever.
No career decision is permanent.
It will, however, save a lot of time, money and stress to do careful research before deciding on a career. If you feel you do not have enough information to choose right option over another, you may want to do more research before making decision.
"Indecisiveness" is a situation that bothers many people, wherein one just not being able to decide, one way or another. Life isn't so easy. It's often full of tough decisions, ambiguity, dilemmas, seemingly tough situations, and times when we just confuse and don't judge what to do. (Please
refer this another article: Negative emotions responsible for
"Indecisiveness tendency")
Proper decision making is an art, while chronic indecisiveness
is a tendency of nature owing to emotional
imbalance.
Normally it is observed that those people who make decisions
hurriedly are often rash or impulsive; and at the other end, there are those who become paralyzed and suffer from
chronic indecisiveness.
In other words, proper decision makers are rare.
When there are really tough choices, then, many people can never make up their minds and tend to keep
that issue lingering. Prolonged indecision or indecisiveness
tendency may be due to an extreme fear of risk and responsibility. Life often challenges us to a choice between equally unpleasant alternatives. When we accept the challenge, whatever we do is bound to involve risk, rigor, and responsibility. If we run away from the challenge, probably we may lose the opportunity for growth.
Intelligent decision implies a determinate mental make-up. Your mental make-up
and inherent nature is a root of your capabilities and it represents one's self-image or sense of identification. In early childhood the groundwork for one's inner-self is laid. While going through the various surrounding
circumstances in developing stages of life, our mental make-up or attitude towards life develops. In early childhood if the child come across with chaotic situations, parents frequent bickering with one-another, selfishness or abuse all around, then in future such child becomes extremely confused, both emotionally and ideologically. Such children left hanging in the middle without any feeling of self-identification. They cannot develop any clear sense of values. They deprived of a clear sense of identity. They do not seem to know who they are. As a result, they represent confusing, co-dependent personality and unable to make any clear-cut decisions throughout their life.
Guiding Principles while taking a Decision:
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Decision shall be a proven as pleasurable in future.
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Decision shall be suitable or perfect in that particular
situation
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While taking major decisions like as those related to marriage, career, social service, or religious commitment, we all have to make many minor decisions related to major ones in life. New situations constantly arise, calling upon us to review decisions afresh, because there is no thumb rule that can be blindly applied in all circumstances. Every situation has to be carefully considered in its concrete fullness. When time permits, well-wishers and trustworthy authorities can be consulted before finalization, but finally a decision has always to be made in the depths of one's own being. Please remember our inner-self is an active awareness and a creative source within us, it is awareness of the true-self as a core of action of Being.
Decision Making ability, Indecisiveness and Negative
emotions co-relation.
Often the causes of "chronic Indecisiveness or
lack of proper decision making skill"
are more mental than physical. A bad relationship, poor
self image, a history of abuse, stress, frustration and many other factors
can change your overall attitude towards life which may
directly impede your overall performance. Such
tendencies are deep-rooted in mind and nurtured by
excessive Negative
Emotions.
It is needless to mention that these negative emotions
are tremendously powerful. They can debilitate lives
extremely quick by causing disparity in energy system,
which triggers a sequence of emotional imbalance (i.e.
frustration, melancholia, persistent agony, mental
instability, uncontrolled anger, inferiority complex
etc.), which ultimately culminates in ill health.
Lessen "Negative
Emotions"
in psyche. (i.e. frustration, uncontrolled anger,
bitterness, excessive shame, guilt, arrogance, envy,
jealousy, greed, fear, suspicious nature, inferiority
complex, persistent agony or melancholy, mental
instability, escapism or shilly-shallying tendencies,
communication apprehension, poor will power, low
grasping, absentmindedness, sloth, laziness, dawdling,
dodging etc.) 
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